DEAR LADY,
There are many reasons people decide to marry like; training an heir, getting a free-for-life business manager or financial deal, needing a housekeeper or a beautiful arm decoration to go with his status, getting his mother off his neck, desire to join the married clique, his environment dictates so… and lot more than these.
The Bible already expelled your headache by explaining who to choose. If he does not need a helper, please, bless his journey as he continues his search.