Faith,  Lifestyle

We Listen and We Judge Unapologetically

Introducing, sweet Sharon who celebrated her twentieth birthday four months ago. She and Kelvin, her coursemate finally decided to jump off the virgin train. What better option but to become partners in the forthcoming pleasurable experiments?

Mike is quite the opposite. Twenty-five and still too shy and cautious to pick up girls like his colleagues do, he plays it safe with his hands in his bathroom every morning.

Mr. Kolawole can only find sexual pleasure when he sleeps with children below eight years, their gender notwithstanding. “There’s just something about their innocence that heats the nerves in my body at the same time,” he says.

Chetachukwu’s sexual appetite is only sated when another of his gender is on the menu. He has tried the alternative. It doesn’t work.

Mustapha is considering retiring from his job to move back to his village to assist his ageing mother in her farm but more importantly to have unhindered access to the animals there.

For Neto, consensual sex stopped being it for him when he was twenty-one – the first time he forced himself on a girl. Now, he considers himself a strategist; wooing and kidnapping unsuspecting ladies interchangeably to secluded locations where he can “conquer” them. The planning adds to his anticipation while their struggles crown his release.

Mercy is struggling with sexual dissatisfaction in her 2-year marriage because her husband refuses to allow another person to join their marriage bed.

Two blocks away from her street, Niola dumped her boyfriend this morning for his inability to offer her the level of humiliation and debasement that gets her happy.

Tunji, her best friend is in full support of her decision after all, who is he to judge when he’s into dead bodies?

Stop.

Stop it.

Just stop.

Who are you to judge them? They said that fulfilling these desires makes them happy and content. Who are you to decide which desires should be acted on and which shouldn’t?

What scale are you using? You saw nothing wrong with Sharon and Kelvin because she’s an adult in a consensual relationship, right? Or with Mike who’s just playing it safe.

Are you telling me that YOU decide by yourself what’s right and wrong? Ha, whatta joke. Why are society’s laws strict against child molesters but accept pre-marital sex even amongst teenagers? Societal laws are pure comedy.

It’s worth mentioning that the ONLY scale that covers every one of the above “wrong” cases is also against “consensual sex outside the marriage bed”- GOD’S LAW which he’s very SPECIFIC about:

  1. Must be between one male and female ONLY
  2. Lawfully joined together
  3. Must be forever.

Quite simple.

But successfully knocks every known perversion to the ground. The reason is that all sexual perversions are only symptoms of man’s fallen nature irrespective of how horrible one might seem to another. Nowhere does the scripture encourage self-pleasure above God’s standards.

The next time you want to condemn any sexual offence as one who keeps a sexual partner outside the marriage bed or encourages “safe sex,” remember these 3 things:

  1. You have no right because your scale is unfair. 2. You are guilty of the same crime as that sexual offender. 3. You’re also a supporter of that same behaviour you claim to hate.

Yes, for us with God’s word, we listen and judge sin in whatever form it may take.

Hi, I'm Chioma Jeremiah. I'm passionate about helping my community see the beautiful light that each day brings. My goal is to inspire you with everything that will make each read the best for you.

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