Our parents (I speak for my many different tribal friends) tried to soak us in this thing called tribalism; this system of "my own", "fear them" or the "onye Yoruba," "ndi Hausa," "omo Igbo" mentality growing up but many of us laughed them to scorn. We had found sisters and brothers very far from home and we were not willing to give it up. Now, I'm worried...